“It’s your kind of suffering”
Since I moved with my new roommates, Luca and Devan, I have had more discussions about love and soul than usual, we are all single, but with an open heart for a relationship… “that relationship”.
Therefore, we put under the magnifying glass any new person appears and dissect it :))
“Why did I attract this person?” “Why could it be the one?” “Why not?” And so on. The problem arises when someone attracts us very much, but we know from the beginning that it is not “what we need”. And about all these people, Luca always says, “It’s your kind of suffering!” (By the way she is Theta Healer Therapist, you can find her here if you want to have a private session)
What exactly does this mean? It is clear that not all of us have the good fortune to attract the “right person” when we want to. In my book “The Secrets of Lasting Relationships – What attracts us & What makes us stay together?” I developed the reasons why we “attract” the right person for us. But what makes us attract “our kind of suffering”?
Unresolved issues obviously.
The universe will always test through the people we attract the level we are at and where we still have to work.
Obviously, “our kind of suffering” can manifest in all areas of our lives, not just in love, we just have to see which area is not how we want it, in which bubble we turn and what measures we can take.
No matter what we try to provoke by attracting “our kind of suffering” we can always make the decision to “change the beginning”, to build things having a healthy foundation.